The World Turns


The World Turns

You had your time in the sun
Everything was bright, success surrounded you
All were happy to see you and be seen with you
Your generous heart and soul were freely given
Your decency prevented you from suspicion

Now you are in the shade of a lowering storm
The dappled shadows of depression are rife
Sometimes you think your life is over
Loneliness, regret and grief may fill your days
And where are those people you thought of as friends?

As this year ends, a new one will follow
The sun will come out again and you will be there
Sadder and wiser, remorseful and changed
But strong, mighty, innocent and free
And a new chapter will begin as the world turns


Fondest love from Sally


Message for Oscar: I hope that you see this

Dearest Oscar,

Not a day goes by that we dont think of you!
I read the messages left by people, through facebook, on your website, and am staggered by the support you have!
It’s over-whelming!
I hope that you see this Oscar, the people who still love, support and believe in you. That the messages you read on this site bring you solace in times of need!

Never stop fighting Oscar, never stop believing! We are all behind you! Always!!


Message for Oscar: Drop in the Ocean

“We know only too well that what we are doing is nothing more than a drop in the ocean. But if the drop were not there, the ocean would be missing something.”

~ Mother Teresa


We at olcpfriends are only a drop in the ocean of Oscar’s life, but perhaps we would be missed if we weren’t there.

To not be here, part of that small drop, is unthinkable to me.

Oscar, you are lodged inside my heart – now and always. In years to come, there will always be a small part of me wondering how you are, what you’re doing, if you’re ok. There will be days when I don’t think of you, but you’ll always be there, at the back of my mind.

I may only be a particle in that small drop in the ocean, but you will always have a place in the ocean of my heart.


Message for Oscar: The Fire Tiger

OSCAR and the Fire Tiger

firetiger Chinese name: HU

According to Chinese Astrology, Oscar appears to be a Fire Tiger.

For the Chinese the Tiger is the living symbol of strength and also power and generally inspires fear and respect.

The Tigers’ compelling dynamism, intense activity, independence and curiosity about others make them irresistible and persons of multiple charms; Tigers are truly attracting followers and admirers.

The Tiger seems to be courageous, active, self-assured and can make an excellent leader and protector.

However liberal-minded Tigers may be, they are also passionate, rash and sometimes resist the authority of others.

Although they are a little bit selfish in the little things, they are capable of great generosity, even of altruism, in the larger.

Tigers are generally individuals of action and thrust by destiny into the spotlight.

Tigers could be indeed fearless creatures in as much as they blind themselves to dangers and impetuously rush in where more cautious individuals would fear to tread.

This will lead him and those involved to “life changing moments”.

Outspoken in the face of injustice, their strong humanitarian instincts will not allow them to pass by if they see a wrong perpetrated upon another.

The Tigers’ many experiences serve to enrich their life and add depth to their nature. In fact material benefits matter little to them.

Their kindness and generosity will shine through – except when crossed or backed into a corner, for then they can become vehement and also ferocious.

He sometimes finds it very hard to contain his boundless energy and overspreading enthusiasm. He is often ready for any kind of action and movement.

The Tiger is indeed independent, often unconventional and a thoroughly optimistic personality.

For Oscar

With empathy


Message for Oscar: Feel the support and the love that is out here for you

Embrace the day and make it special. Don’t take things for granted. Share a smile. Love and be loved. Strengthen yourself and encourage others.

Not a day goes by that I do not think of you Oscar. Although I’m not a religious person myself, it gives me a good feeling that your strong belief in God is an anchor to deal with the terrible situation you’re in, that it gives you peace and hope and confidence. I keep you in my thoughts and send out positivity. I wish you feel the support and the love that is out here for you. Keep going Oscar!